The Missing Ingredient in Most Presentations: Tension
I grew up spending summers underwater. Not metaphorically. Literally. I’d spend hours diving in the lake looking for crayfish, rocks, and anything hidden below the surface. I was also a competitive swimmer, so holding my breath became a strange point of pride for me. I practiced it. Counted the seconds. Learned how to stay calm underwater longer than most people around me.
One afternoon changed that when I came up for air and hit the bottom of a raft. I still remember the panic I felt. Real panic. The kind where your body stops thinking clearly and your attention suddenly becomes razor sharp, focused on finding air.
Tension does that. It sharpens attention.
Which is interesting, because most presentations are designed to eliminate tension as quickly as possible. The speaker walks on stage and immediately explains everything: the answer, strategy, conclusion, and recommendation. This feels helpful, but it eliminates curiosity, anticipation, and engagement.
But audiences lean in when something feels unresolved. That’s why people stay up too late watching Netflix. The human brain is wired to seek resolution.
I often coach smart professionals who are so eager to prove competence that they answer every question before the audience has fully formed it. But when you solve the problem too quickly, you rob the audience of the opportunity to discover. I encourage them to create strategic tension. It’s the space between:
What the audience knows and what they want to know.
Try this instead;
Ask a question before revealing the answer.
Introduce a challenge before presenting the solution.
Pause before delivering the insight.
Let the audience sit in uncertainty just long enough to care.
Add physical tension:
A pause before an important point.
Stillness before movement.
Silence before the reveal.
Tension gets attention.
You’re not just speaking, you’re directing an experience.
And yes… eventually I found the edge of the raft and air.
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